I love compliments and hugs and such. So if someone tells me I'm sexy I would feel flattered. However while dressed in my Kon costume cute would be better, lol. Seriously though, everyone has a different opinion on this. You're best bet is watch body language and keep the comments to things along the lines of things such as "you look cute" or " I really like your costume". Keep it toned down. And as said before watch for body language.